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Thirsty by Jas Hammonds

7 reviews

featherinthewind's review against another edition

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emotional reflective medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

First of all, amazing. This book deals with so much and it is centered around drinking and the complexity of relationships, and as someone who wanted to self destruct all the time as a teenager because of unstable coping mechanisms, I loved this book.

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otakatoe3's review

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adventurous challenging reflective sad tense fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

3.5


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skye_era_books's review against another edition

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challenging reflective fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? It's complicated
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

5.0

Thirsty is such a raw and real book based on very very real struggles that many young people face - alcoholism. I always love Jas’ queer and bipoc characters and how they make them so real with all of their struggles.

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imstephtacular's review

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challenging dark emotional sad tense medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.5

Wow this book is a kick in the teeth! It absolutely wrecked me and slowly pieced me back together. It’s hard but it’s beautiful 

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justinekorson's review against another edition

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challenging dark emotional funny hopeful inspiring reflective sad tense fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.25

Thank you to Netgalley for providing me with an ARC of this story.
SPOILERS TO FOLLOW

This was such a good story. I was first intrigued by the title and the cover. I knew it might be a coming-of-age type of story so I was wondering why it was called thirsty until I read the synopsis. I really related to Blake because I also drink when I get nervous (not the the extent that Blake does though) and her self-deprecating thoughts were very relatable. I could understand her anxiety and self-hate so I really felt for her when she was having such a hard time and pushing herself to great lengths to try to get into the Serena Society. 

My favorite character was probably Annetta though because they were so caring, kind, and loyal. I loved that they were trying to hard to help Blake and kept trying despite how many times Blake pushed them away. I was glad the two of them were able to make up in the end and stay friends. 

I was a little surprised that the story kept going after Blake and Ella had their break-up conversation but the chapters afterwards were really important to the plot and Blake's recovery overall. I really enjoyed how the story ends on a very hopeful note.  

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ems_book_shelf's review against another edition

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emotional hopeful tense fast-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? Character
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? N/A
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes

4.0

This book was really good and touched on a lot of heart-heavy topics. There were many jaw dropping “what the fuck” moments and the hazing from the society was insane to read about. I thought it touched on alcoholism in college kids REALLY well. As well as the peer pressure to “keep up” and be cool around people you’re trying to impress, and especially the internal monologue of “do I have a problem or don’t I have a problem” when it came to drinking. 

I really liked the ending, and I thought the way Ella was portrayed was so well done. Like a very emotionally abusive S/O but in such a subtle way that by the end you’re like “holy fuck this bitch is terrible” 

I wished we had a little more personal growth for Bree, especially when her drinking centered around her self hatred. When did those thoughts about herself start? Why did we never see them in everyday thoughts? I think some parts of the MC feel flat because of this, but overall I really liked Bree and I thought her ending was really great 

Thank you NetGalley and the publisher for an eARC in exchange for an honest review! 

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bookishmillennial's review

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challenging dark emotional hopeful reflective sad tense medium-paced
  • Plot- or character-driven? A mix
  • Strong character development? Yes
  • Loveable characters? Yes
  • Diverse cast of characters? Yes
  • Flaws of characters a main focus? Yes
disclaimer: I don’t really give starred reviews. I hope my reviews provide enough information to let you know if a book is for you or not. Find me here: https://linktr.ee/bookishmillennial

This is the story of the summer before 18-year-old Blake Brenner (biracial Black & white) goes to college with her longtime girlfriend Ella (biracial Filipina & Black) & their best friend, Annette, who is recently reeling over her mom leaving Virginia to pursue her career in NYC. Ella is the epitome of wealthy elite, being a legacy kid at their upcoming college and in the secret Serena Society that Ella's mom is an advisor for now. Meanwhile, Blake puts more and more distance between her and her family, especially her white mom who never put in the effort to learn what is necessary to raise a biracial Black child.

Blake's family is *not* wealthy, and this comes up a lot as the three besties rush for the Serena Society all summer, especially under the scrutinizing eye of Roxanne, a current Serena Society member. Blake confronts all the things she hates about herself: her behavior when she drinks, her family's class and lack of status, her white mom, her relationship with Ella, and more. Side characters explore their gender identities, familial dynamics, and more, and each character is layered, and cleverly nuanced.

Okay, as to not spoil this book for you, but to pitch it to you, and convince you to read it, I know that nothing I say will do this book justice. It is a privilege to have read it, and to have had the physical book in my hands, I'm serious!!!! To put it quite simply: This is one of the best books I have ever read. Jas Hammonds is a master of their craft, and I am quite simply in awe of their talent. I genuinely feel so lucky that I got to read an ARC of this?! Blake interrogates her feelings, both about herself and those surrounding her; she makes messy, painful decisions out of insecurity, spite, and fear; and though you may question her choices at times, no one is harder on Blake than Blake herself. 

This delved deep into the shame, regret, pain, agony, grief, and self-hatred that one feels in the midst of alcoholism and addiction, but never painted them as a villain. Blake was just.... human. She was still worthy of redemption, of forgiveness, of hope, of something more. She still deserved better from those who claimed to care for her. Damn, this book wrecked me but then gently nudged me to remind me that it would be okay, and to believe in and root for Blake. 
 
Some other things that stood out to me that are kind of spoilers, enjoy these unstructured thoughts:
  • Ella's motivations were driven by this need to uphold the status that was already placed onto her perfect lil' head at birth, but I found her character to be so fascinating. It shows that you do not have to be white to uphold systems that do not serve people of color, even if they are seemingly targeted towards them? Like the Serena Society is specifically for young women of color, but it also perpetuated problematic messaging that you needed to drink, be friends with the "right" people, and have the right clothes / job / partner / etc. in order to fit in. That's just subscribing to what colonialism and white supremacy taught us, and Ella makes decisions based on upholding Black excellence, when it is only depriving herself of genuine, authentic connections with herself and others; and it's actively harming those around her who are struggling. Wild. JH, you making Ella half-Filipina was the right move because Ella's people-pleasing, gaslighting, toxic positivity, and fear of not delivering perfection was *wildly* authentic. 
  • The conversation between Blake and her mom about her comment that Mariah Carey was "only half Black" was a reckoning. I appreciated that Blake held her mom accountable for microaggressions with that as a salient example, but still gave her the chance to do better. Blake seemingly wrote her mom off with Ella's influence, as Ella called Blake's mom "so hopelessly white," and like sure, that can be true. However, you can also name those feelings and invite your mom to do better if you feel like the relationship is salvageable, and instead, Ella just posited her mom as perfect and Blake's mom as irredeemable, which is interesting because Ella actually felt almost irredeemable to me for a lot of this book (but she isn't, she just needs to go on her own unlearning journey).
  • I fear I may never recover from the carnival family day where Blake just left. I cried and shook my head, I yelled at the book, and I got such deep secondhand-shame. JH's writing is phenomenal. Stellar. Unbelievable. I could feel the heartache through the page. Still recovering. Still tearing up thinking about this scene! It is indelibly seared into my brain forever.

I am simmering in the pure wonder that I have as I ruminate on how JH does what they do. I'm speechless at how moved I was by this. I sobbed into my pillow, took breaks to hug the book, and whispered, "Blake baby, noooooo" so many times. I cannot properly express how monumentally this book affected me (okay wait, do you get it? Because JH's other book is named "We Deserve Monuments" ?! GET IT?! okay, I'll stop being corny)

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