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This is historical fiction at its best I think—it’s made me realize how little I know about the Viet Nam war, and now I’ll be doing a deep dive into that. Highly recommend this for those who love multigenerational sagas and strong women characters—though keep in mind this is a book about the ravages of war on a family, so it’s going to be tough, but it’s worth it.
Graphic: Death, Physical abuse, Rape, Torture, Violence, Murder, War, Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Body horror, Bullying, Cancer, Child death, Death, Emotional abuse, Gore, Gun violence, Hate crime, Mental illness, Physical abuse, Racism, Rape, Suicidal thoughts, Suicide, Violence, Blood, Medical content, Grief, Death of parent, Murder, Pregnancy, Abandonment, War, Injury/Injury detail
Kirja sai minut itkemään ja myös tuntemaan myötätuntoa ja iloa henkilöiden kanssa. Suosittelen ehdottomasti!
Graphic: Child death, Death, Mental illness, Rape, Sexual violence, Terminal illness, Violence, Death of parent, Murder, War
Moderate: Alcoholism, Vomit, Injury/Injury detail
Graphic: Death, Violence, Blood, Grief, Death of parent, Murder, War, Injury/Injury detail
Moderate: Alcoholism, Torture, Abandonment
Minor: Rape, Suicide, Terminal illness, Vomit
The positives first. This multigenerational sweeping saga of the Trần family told via alternating narrators of Trần Diệu Lan and her granddaughter Hương is clearly a labour of love. The opening scene of grandmother Trần carrying Hương on her back desperately seeking an unoccupied bomb shelter while American B-52 bombers are approaching Hà Nội is riveting (Quế Mai shares her inspiration for this opening here https://www.writersdigest.com/be-inspired/author-spotlight-nguyen-phan-que-mai). I also really liked the Vietnamese proverbs sprinkled throughout the book, well-suited to the situation at hand. The Vietnamese culture and sense of family that permeates the whole novel makes it a rich offering.
As readers, we are given a whirlwind snapshot of the tumultuous events that Việt Nam and her people go through: the French Occupation, the American War, Japanese invasion, the Great Hunger, Land Reform, North-South conflict, formation of the Socialist Republic of Vietnam. By necessity, there is no in-depth focus on any one event, each of them a momentous one forming historical epochs. I personally would have preferred more of a zooming in, as it felt like this family was incessantly pounded by one traumatic event after another. For example, I would have liked to read more about how North Vietnamese people like Auntie Hanh and progeny are bullied and discriminated against in Sài Gòn in the late 1970s due to remaining acrimony between North and South.
Not all the inflictors of misery and war (foreign or internal) are appropriated the same blame. Hương on reading an American book realizes 'they're just like us,' the 7.6 million tons of bombs and over 20 million gallons of herbicides like Agent Orange dropped by American aircraft curiously given short shrift. The latter causing not only widespread ecological damage but physiologic human harm is mainly illustrated through karmic retribution for the evil Communist supporters. The peasants who have the gall to demand land from this benevolent angelic wealthy landowner family are singularly depicted as avaricious, uncouth, filthy. At times, we are given an inadvertent glimpse at the inequalities; while neighbours are scrabbling for food, grandma and granddaughter are surreptitiously designing and building a spacious three bedroom house. To appease local fury, they 'generously' manipulate the local council into digging a local well too. Crumbs for the sparrows. As young Hương is able to afford more conspicuous material goods such as a bicycle and foreign books, her friends/neighbours shun her but they are just jealous and she doesn't need them anyway because she has her book characters to keep her company. If you want to find out who the good characters are, they are the ones who read. Excepting reading communist propaganda, of course. Tâm, Hương's beau, might as well have a halo over his head other than the stain of having a relative on the 'wrong' side. It’s like watching a simplistic morality play. I am also rather appalled by the self-loathing that Ngoc, Hương's mother, was made to go through for what is a sensible decision. In addition, the writing of her character as a doctor especially in her personal journal is not realistic.
Some of the 'lessons' imparted seem like platitudes in the form of aphorisms - everything happens for a reason, if we all read each other, there would be no war.
I never really felt like I had a good sense of the characters or any progress in characterization. Trần Diệu Lan is emblematic of resilience, of blazoning courage, of being a survivor against all odds. She values her burgeoning family, even the brainwashed ones, welcoming them warmly back to the family bosom once they see the erroneousness of their views. She forgives serenely all who wronged her. She reminds me of the stories that my mother told me of my grandmother: she was the bestest mother, wise and forgiving beyond belief, survivor of the Japanese occupation, miraculously managing to feed the large family against great hardship. It's part of the family legend that some rich neighbour offered to buy some of the children but my grandparents steadfastly refused. I don't doubt she was that but I also wonder what kept her up at night, what personal resentments she harboured that she never confided in her children, what aspirations she had. The last time I spoke to my grandmother before her passing was when she was in the midst of advanced dementia and diabetic complications but I will never forget how she momentarily broke out of her fog to ask me if I thought there was a god.
What I am clumsily expressing is that I think the book would have benefitted from more nuance but despite the heavy-handedness and bias, I still appreciate having read it. Lest it be misunderstood, I would welcome reading more Vietnamese perspective books and definitely not any from foreign aggressors/occupiers.
Graphic: Death, Violence, War
Moderate: Addiction, Alcoholism, Gore, Mental illness, Rape, Blood, Injury/Injury detail
Minor: Ableism, Excrement
Painful, heartbreaking, but so inspiring and hopeful in the end. A novel about the horrors, and the truest beauties of life.
Graphic: Violence, Murder, War
Moderate: Miscarriage, Abortion
Minor: Alcoholism, Cancer, Confinement, Rape, Suicide, Abandonment, Injury/Injury detail
Que Mai's intuitive style of writing made me feel truly part of Huong, her grandmother's and their family's world of Viet Nam, as they experienced first-hand the exceptional trauma of the Great Hunger, Land Reform and the Vietnam war.
Everything from their visceral emotions and heartache arising from these cruel conflicts, to their moments of appreciation of nature, familial closeness and belonging - I truly felt like I journeyed along with them.
Que Mai also skilfully wove in how the family, sooner or later, had to wrestle with the realities of clashing ideologies, affiliations and temperaments, from where the conflicts had originated. The nuances of this played out through the novel, illustrating the complex, uphill battle towards reconciliation and the preciousness of peace, especially for families.
From a personal perspective, the novel both enriched my knowledge of Vietnamese culture and history (which was shamefully minimal before!), and caused me to consider some of the subtle maxims in my own culture, with its socialist undertones.
Quotes
"Squatting on the ground, I wrote for an uncle I'd been robbed of, who was leaf pushed away from its tree, but at its last moment still struggled to fall back to its roots. I wrote for Grandma, who'd hoped for the fire of war to be extinguished, only for its embers to keep burning her. I wrote for my uncles, my aunt, and my parents, who were helpless in the fight of brother against brother, and whose war went on, regardless of whether they were alive, or dead."
"I used to believe that blood will tell, but blood evolves and can change, too. Young people can't be blamed for what their ancestors did"
Graphic: Physical abuse, Grief, War, Injury/Injury detail
Graphic: Ableism, Addiction, Alcoholism, Cancer, Child abuse, Child death, Death, Domestic abuse, Genocide, Gore, Gun violence, Infertility, Miscarriage, Physical abuse, Terminal illness, Violence, Blood, Kidnapping, Grief, Medical trauma, Abortion, Death of parent, Murder, Abandonment, Alcohol, Colonisation, War, Injury/Injury detail, Classism
It could also be frustrating; despite how much I loved the book, I often felt like the characters were almost too naïve deliberately so the author could use them as a mouthpiece for philosophical arguments; i.e. Huong being 15 and not understanding what rape is so that the book can make the argument that no one should be shamed for violence inflicted upon them. There were other instances of this that tested believability, but for me it didn't drag down the impact of the novel. I'd recommend this to anyone and it will have a permanent place on my bookshelf and rotation of revered books.
Graphic: Body horror, Cancer, Death, Genocide, Gore, Gun violence, Mental illness, Misogyny, Racism, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Suicide, Terminal illness, Violence, Blood, Medical content, Grief, Medical trauma, Death of parent, Murder, Sexual harassment, War, Injury/Injury detail, Classism
Graphic: Alcoholism, Cancer, Child death, Death, Panic attacks/disorders, Suicidal thoughts, Terminal illness, Violence, Blood, Grief, Abortion, Death of parent, Murder, Abandonment, Sexual harassment, War, Classism
Moderate: Confinement, Genocide, Mental illness, Physical abuse, Rape, Sexual assault, Sexual violence, Torture, Medical trauma, Toxic friendship, Colonisation, Injury/Injury detail
Minor: Ableism, Child abuse, Domestic abuse, Incest, Infertility