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Quando le montagne cantano by Nguyễn Phan Quế Mai

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Loveable characters: Yes
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I just finished The Mountains Sing for my bookclub, and I listened on audio but also read the paperback along with it. I’m so glad I listened because hearing the family names, songs, and Vietnamese phrases gave this book an extra layer that I wouldn’t have gotten just reading it on my own and wondering how to pronounce what is written on the page. This story is hard, very hard to read in places but there is so much love and strength throughout the book—and it’s told beautifully. This is the second novel I’ve read written by a poet and the turns of phrases and writing are so lyrical and visual that it makes the reading experience so rich. I also loved the descriptions of food—though hunger is a large part of the suffering the characters go through. 
This is historical fiction at its best I think—it’s made me realize how little I know about the Viet Nam war, and now I’ll be doing a deep dive into that. Highly recommend this for those who love multigenerational sagas and strong women characters—though keep in mind this is a book about the ravages of war on a family, so it’s going to be tough, but it’s worth it.

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it hurt to read this.
do you feel like a rather gruesome, inspiringly hopeful but incredibly sad war torn intergenerational trauma family saga? then this book is for you 😀

What my uncle said made me think. I had resented America, too. But by reading their books, I saw the other side of them-their humanity. Somehow I was sure that if people were willing to read each other, and see the light of other cultures, there would be no war on earth.

4 stars because there are things that distract from the story that i feel could have been better written:  funky pacing at times, and the last letter declaration...nobody writes letters like that 😭 it was a not-at-all-subtle literary device, as were some of the characters!! who sometimes seemed to appear more as statements than full-fledged characters.

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The perspective of the grandma and Huong (Guava) as they live through significant war-torn parts of Vietnamese history. I came into this book blind once again and did not expect the war crimes of the Vietnam War to hit me so hard. It was a really tough read but it is so well written. I got so emotional and entirely immersed in the fear, sadness, and lost of the family. I read one of the critic reviews of the book that mentions that this was the missing narrative of the war and I totally agree. 

This historical fiction hits really close to  home and to hear directly from a fictional family that has been affected represents so many families that actually experienced the aftermath of war. There is a lot going on in this book  so please tread lightly and take breaks if needed. But I highly recommend this novel! 

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One of the most incredible books that I've ever read. 

Que Mai's intuitive style of writing made me feel truly part of Huong, her grandmother's and their family's world of Viet Nam, as they experienced first-hand the exceptional trauma of the Great Hunger, Land Reform and the Vietnam war.

Everything from their visceral emotions and heartache arising from these cruel conflicts, to their moments of appreciation of nature, familial closeness and belonging - I truly felt like I journeyed along with them. 

Que Mai also skilfully wove in how the family, sooner or later, had to wrestle with the realities of clashing ideologies, affiliations and temperaments, from where the conflicts had originated. The nuances of this played out through the novel, illustrating the complex, uphill battle towards reconciliation and the preciousness of peace, especially for families.

From a personal perspective, the novel both enriched my knowledge of Vietnamese culture and history (which was shamefully minimal before!), and caused me to consider some of the subtle maxims in my own culture, with its socialist undertones.


Quotes
"Squatting on the ground, I wrote for an uncle I'd been robbed of, who was leaf pushed away from its tree, but at its last moment still struggled to fall back to its roots. I wrote for Grandma, who'd hoped for the fire of war to be extinguished, only for its embers to keep burning her. I wrote for my uncles, my aunt, and my parents, who were helpless in the fight of brother against brother, and whose war went on, regardless of whether they were alive, or dead."

"I used to believe that blood will tell, but blood evolves and can change, too. Young people can't be blamed for what their ancestors did"

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Wow. I’ve known about this novel for ages not least of all because I have many friends on Bookstagram who’ve raved about it for years. The truth is they just might have undersold it. This is a truly brilliant, compellingly-told multigenerational family saga that is filled with so much life and tragedy but yet so much hope for healing and reconciliation even in the face of hardship. 

First of all, I entered this book not knowing much about Vietnamese history beyond America’s interventionist role in it, the dispute in America around their own involvement, and the resultant mess left behind. To my knowledge, contemporary Vietnam is a gorgeous place that tourists visit and that is on my bucket list to go to. Yet outside of this perspective, I’d never really experienced Vietnam from its own perspective as the subject of its own story rather than through a Western lens. Knowing my own family’s experience of war and occupation in my own country, I know the story is never simple and not everyone will agree with this author’s approach to telling this story or perspectives on historical events as reflected through Huong and her grandmother, Diêu Lan. That said, from my perspective as an international reader, I think the author tells an eminently and universally human story where if we acknowledge the commonality of of our humanity, we will understand that there are no real winners in war. 

Diêu Lan is clearly the star of this book even if Huang’s voice remains strong throughout. Sometimes with books about characters that are resilient in the face of incredible trauma and hardship, the inspiration they provide as strong characters can simultaneously feel a little dismissive of the magnitude and impact of the suffering of others- sort of like “if Diêu Lan can move on and keep going, why can’t you? If she can forgive, something must be wrong with you that you can’t.” I think this book approaches this sensibly. Diêu Lan has Pollyanna ways, but she also feels deeply her grief and processes it through her faith. And through that faith, she’s also able to accept people (her children, for example) at different stages of grief and anger and PTSD without judgement and without insisting on her own approach or perspective. I loved how pragmatic she was but also how loving and how emotional. For me, her story was a coming of age story that revealed a lot about how much her family and the way she was raised set her up to face some of the challenges she did in her life. Huang’s story was a parallel coming of age story but more reflective of our journey as readers being novices in Vietnamese history or in Diêu Lan’s life and maturing as we read to a state of of not quite full adulthood, greater understanding of the multiplicity of perspectives and experiences that can be true and the commonality of suffering of everyday people in a war.

The language in this book was absolutely gorgeous, the use of proverbs and stories and viewing the world through a rich lens of culture and traditions, lent authenticity to the history we were reading. This was absolutely tragic but it never felt like grief porn, your heart was broken but in Diêu Lan’s resilience, it was healed again. Even in difficult moments, I was drawn to this and could hardly put it down. This is absolutely my favourite read so far this year and a new all time fave that will stick with me for a long time. I can’t recommend this enough.

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Powerful story about three generations in North Vietnam: it goes back-and-forth between a young girl’s experience of the end of the Vietnam war, and her grandmother’s survival of the 1940s great hunger and harsh land reform, with the middle generation being portrayed either as children or soldiers.

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